How's it going my gumdrops? Today is the day! It's Not All Gumdrops
& Unicorns turns 3, this year!
After announcing that I would be
publishing another Q&A blog for It's Not All Gumdrops
& Unicorns' 3rd anniversary, I seriously expected more questions from everyone on here and social media.
Were you scared? Unsure where to submit your questions? Had no
questions to ask? Do you believe you know everything about me (Trust me, you
don't!)? OR Do some of you feel extremely indifferent/apathetic
about me publishing another Q&A blog?
Lately, I have
considered publishing Q&A blogs once a week besides publishing Song
Saturday and Cartoon Sunday blogs.
However, I try keeping Q&A blogs
for It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns' anniversaries like today. I
consider these Q&A's as "intimate fall treats."
Some
friends think they know EVERYTHING about me, when they really don't. I
have always been a very complex and multi-passionate person. Sometimes
it can be really difficult to decide if I should publish blogs about
more different topics on It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns, or stay
with the current topics.
Before this turns into a
long-winded blog of my digressions, here is the Q&A for It's Not All
Gumdrops & Unicorns' 3rd anniversary.
Donald Clements' Questions:
1)
Within the blogosphere, who are the people you look up to and why?
2)
How big is your current following, and how has it evolved over the
years?
My Answers:
Donald, these are fantastic
questions to have asked me.
1) Marie Forleo and Tim Ferriss are 2 bloggers
and authors I suggest checking out.
Watching,
reading, and listening to Marie and Tim will be beneficial to you, if
you need self-help, want to become a better writer, blogger, etc. Both are really multi-passionate (like MOI except they are more
informative, useful, less moody, and snarky).
You
can learn so much from them both, especially Marie Forleo. Marie is
motivational and entertaining to watch on Marie TV. I always look
forward to a good laugh.
Meanwhile, I believe I have a little more in
common with Tim on different levels. The man is an
Anime and Metal fan, which makes him awesome when you are a fan of both.
Tim Ferriss also has personal experience with overcoming adversity such as
dealing with being suicidal, years ago. He turned his life into
something positive.
This is all the more reason to commend Tim Ferriss.
2) My current following is
gradually regrowing but it is much like a revolving door.
Having false support from social climbers, open and closet "haters," and
opportunistic friends hurts me and my traffic.
If followers TRIED being more interactive, this would definitely help. I ALWAYS respond to comments day and night.
It
has been a major struggle these last 3 years.
The fact that The Xanga
Team was divisive by dumping their money issues into our laps at Xanga 1.0 definitely hurt Xangans, including yours truly.
The Xanga Team REALLY should've taken
out a business loan or so rather than beg us for donations, relocate to
WordPress as a platform, THEN make it mandatory to pay to blog.
I
cannot count, much less remember all the sites I have joined to
generate blog traffic and to rebuild my following over these last 3 years. With that being said, my current following is extremely niche and can be
temperamental.
The moment I share my opposing views
about something, they leave. If I shared my political views, they would
NOT be able to handle it. That's why I stay apolitical.
Danni Darkness Questions:
1) What are the logistics of your website?
2) What was it like working at a radio station?
My Answers:
Danni, these are 2 more excellent questions!
1) Readers/visitors must create
an account, read my blogs and excerpts to my short stories, comment,
and share them on social media or e-mail to friends.
Meanwhile, I am a 1-woman show. In case you have NOT already done
so, you should read last week's Cartoon Sunday blog.
In the preceding blog, I explained the
discussions I had with Jonathan Ian Mathers, last week via Facebook.
Whenever
I am working on these blogs, most of my time lately is spent on finding
the right picture to upload to this site, in order to capture the topic
or theme of my blogs.
Then, I must decide which links, songs, and
videos to share. Afterward, I start blogging.
I work
on these blogs, while everyone is asleep in bed throughout the night
and early morning. Editing anything always takes the most time. Once I
am finished editing, I publish these blogs, type and send out e-mail blasts
to all my subscribers, share on Facebook and around the Google Plus
communities I have joined.
Sharing around Google
Plus takes more effort because I must share my blogs to every social
circle to generate page views, traffic, feedback, and followers. It
would be so much easier and better, if all my subscribers actually
commented on It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns and shared these
blogs around social media. It's not like Xanga and Blogster where
everyone is guaranteed to see these blogs.
2) Since 2002, I have always been a 1-woman show. During Fridays
at 4-6pm Central, I hosted All Things Frightening.
This was while
attending and living on campus at UW-Parkside and commuting to Carthage
College part-time for Japanese. My show originally broadcasted locally
in Kenosha, WI and online.
Due to FCC regulations,
everyone at UW-Parkside's 101.7 WIPZ had to censor music live UNLESS
they had a pre-censored CD.
I usually carried my own CD collections to
our campus radio station and played extra albums, that were already on
campus.
Sometimes I seriously miss hosting my own
radio show. I was able to discover other bands and expose listeners to
music, that wasn't always played on traditional radio stations.
Hunter Gibson: Do you have a favorite movie and band?
Answer:
Yes, I do and my favorites have always been very broad.
If only I could
narrow them down. As everyone knows, I am a Horror fan hence the Horror
page I built with excerpts of my latest short stories.
Re-Animator,
the original Carrie, The Crow, The Craft, Child's Play, Beetlejuice,
and The Omen instantly come to mind.
I enjoy movies from several other
genres and sub-genres, but I always look forward to watching Horror
movies from the 1970's to '90s.
During those decades, Hollywood filmmakers were actually more original and did NOT remake every movie.
Lately,
as for bands, I enjoy...
Alien Vampires (they are actually an EBM duo), Lacuna Coil
circa 1999-2002, Type O Negative, other Goth Rock bands like
Bauhaus, Siouxsie And The Banshees.
Stone Temple Pilots and KoRn from
the 1990's were 2 of my favorite bands. So are White
Zombie, Stabbing Westward, Gravity Kills, Fear Factory, Arch Enemy,
Slipknot, and lots more.
Growing up, music especially Metal was my entertainment
and my catharsis. Most people young and
old do NOT realize, that the 1990's had the most music genres and
sub-genres compared to now. Today it seems as if Pop and Rap Music have
merged and ONLY 1 music genre exists.
There are too
WAY many bands to think of from the top of my head. I was already drawing
blanks with your questions because I really had to think much HARDER.
Great questions! Even though there were not as
many questions from most subscribers this year, the few I did receive
were excellent questions.
Hopefully, there will be more questions
similar to these next year for It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns' 4th
anniversary!
What are your thoughts? Did you like this year's Q&A blog? If so, let me know in the comments section below!